If you have been burned by a relationship and either want to prove that you were not the bad one, or want your ex back, you need to know that there are many ways to make your ex boyfriend miss you. Many women have been using the very same techniques to turn around the relationship and get back together successfully.
When you think that you are no longer needed and you can’t take care of your man any more, it is a horrible feeling.
You can still make your ex want you by changing your behavior and working on a successful plan.
Let’s face it: there is nothing harder than making your ex want to see you or arrange meeting by accident. Unfortunately, this is not something you can do without help. I don’t mean that you would need to spy on him if you want to make your ex boyfriend miss you, but if you suggested to meet he would possibly refuse. Men are very proud and wouldn’t come back on their own, no matter how much they suffer. That is why you have to try and help him.
The best way to make your ex want you is to try and get him to notice you in a new light.
If you stay the same, he might not be interested in you, as he thinks he knows you inside out. But if you are getting a makeover, start hanging out with different people, take on a new hobby, start a new sport or just behave differently, you can make your ex boyfriend miss you.
You might be thinking that he will forget about you, right after breaking up. Although men don’t usually like showing their feelings and can try and stay strong, they will still miss you. As they are practical creatures, they will remember the things you did for them first. So you can work on reminding him about these things –obviously indirectly- to make your ex boyfriend miss you.
You should be trying to look indifferent and happy; this is the best way to make your ex want you.
He might see how content and satisfied you are and he will be jealous of the people you spend time with.
And now you are on the way to get him back. When he sees your new single life, he will want to be a part of it, too. If he sees you having fun and going out with your friends, he will instantly remember the times you spent together. If you don’t even mention your relationship, you will be able to make your ex want you.
Men usually want what they can’t have.
This is strange but true. They are ALL hunters at heart. (If you understand that, you are more than 1/2 way to being in control of your relationship.)
You still should not flirt with every guy, and certainly not start a new serious relationship. Instead you need to look happy on your own and show no need for getting back together. Stay in touch but a bit too busy to spend time worrying about him. Soon, he’ll be back trying to get your attention again.
While many girls think the best way to make your ex boyfriend miss you is to beg him every day, the opposite of this is the truth. If you are disappearing for a while and become mysterious, he will suddenly become interested in you again. Then you turn up, with new friends, looking great, and you seem to be happy.
He will immediately think that something is not right, and he shouldn’t have let you go.
This is the best way to make your ex want you.
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I think that’s absolutely good stuff. Thanks!!!
Marissa Pasagranto says
You shouldnt be anything but your best you!
Last evening in the bar, some guys were there and my ex was with them. I thought about approaching him but I lost my nerve. I didn’t know what to say. So, I just left. 🙁
Hi Selena, remember what I said in my article… if he sees you having fun with your friends, he will remember the good times you spent together. And he’ll wish he was still with you.
So, assuming he saw you having a good time with them (instead of standing in the corner staring at him), you did the right thing.
Me and my ex have been apart for 3 years and we have been pretty close since then. We hang out a lot and text a lot. The other day he told me he was going to go back out with me but he didn’t know for sure. He knows I have feelings for him again and he’s still really flirty and were always together. What should I do?
You are kidding, right? Time for some tough love.
Listen ladies, this is exactly the situation you need to avoid. He gets to have Stephany around all the time and then HE decides when it is time to turn the relationship back on? NO WAY.
You should immediate tell him you need a break. A long break. And YOU will let HIM know when/if you are ready to start hanging out again.
You need to sign up for my email series on how to make him miss you. (Do it today.) In that series of emails I walk through exactly what you should be doing. Follow those steps and you will take control of the relationship.