There are many women struggling alone and are looking for ways to get their ex boyfriend back. Most women go through a break up more than once in a lifetime, but if you feel that this was the real love you found, it is hard to let it go.
Fortunately, clever women and psychologists have developed some proven methods to get him back, and all you have to do is to make him miss you. There are different techniques used, and which one you use will depend on how the relationship ended, too. If you were arguing a lot and broke up with hard feelings, you will not have much chance to win him back the normal way.
You can’t just turn back and say: “I withdraw what I just said.”
However, you can still find great ways to make him miss you and come back on his own, if you are setting up a strategy. Women are great at this, but you will have to make sure he does not see through you. If he notices that you want to win him back, he is going to try and escape. Therefore you should always behave naturally, and never show your real intentions. Don’t tell anyone about your plans, especially not their friends.
And most importantly: don’t ask him out.
If you really want to make him miss you, you will have to change some things. If you were the one who ended the relationship but changed your mind, he is going to be too proud to let you come back. You hurt his feelings, and you will have to work hard to win him back, and give them courage to make the first step. But you will be able to offer him to be friends shortly after the break up, and voila, you already have a plan in place. All you have to remember, if you really want to make him miss you, is to leave him enough space and don’t be around all the time. Otherwise he would think that you can’t live without him, and this is when men can get really self-conscious.
If you separated with hard feelings, you should make him forget about the scene. If you said something you have regretted, in order to win him back, you need to apologize first. Not as a partner, but as a friend. And offer your friendship.
If he ended the relationship, you can still change his mind and get him back. You just need to make him realize what he is missing. You can do that by changing your style, buying new clothes, having a complete makeover or getting new hobbies, friends. Anything he hasn’t known about you so far will make him think about you. And the better picture you can paint about the new, single you, the more you can make him miss you. And once he does, he will try and get back together.
You should make him interested in you again, by making him remember about the good times you spent together. This is how you can make him miss you and want to come back.
But it is important that you let him make the decision, and will not call him or beg him to come back. It will just have an adverse effect and you will never get him back.
Hey, good to find someonoe who agrees with me.
– Tammy 🙂
Josh Binder says
I really liked your posts, Michelle! Helped me alot… Awesome. Exactly what I was looking for. Thanks!
Michelle, do you people have a facebook page? I searched for one on facebook or twitter but could not discover one, I’d really like to become a fan!
Hey Michelle 🙂
First of all, I like your posts very much!
But I’ve got an important question: My boyfriend and me we ( I’m sorry I don’t know the English word) decided to have a break ( but didn’t really break up) we just needed some time and space. The problem is, since then we never got to make up again. We both know, that we still love each other. And when we meet or talk it’s just like we’re a couple again but we aren’t. It’s always an off-and-on . Sometimes we have much contact and call and write ( or meet) us every day, and sometimes we don’t hear from each other for 2 weeks.
And that have been the situation for 9 months.
So now I wanted to ask you, what would you do next? I really love him and want him back!
But officially and for more than just some weeks.
I hope you can help me.