Okay, so the worst has happened.
At least it feels like the worst and the end of the world to you. Instead of planning your winter vacation with the love of your life, you are trying to figure out how to get your boyfriend back. It’s okay, we’ve all been there. We’ve all wondered at one point or another how to make him miss you after he’s given the big heave-ho to you.
Right now, you aren’t thinking straight.
You think you are, but you aren’t. All you can think about right now is how sad you are, and how being back together with him is the only thing that will change that. How close am I on how you are feeling?
We’ve all been there.
Because you aren’t thinking clearly, we are going to clear up that muddled hotbed of emotions you are going through to help you and so that you can get your boyfriend back. But how?
It’s time for Relationship Ninja
Let’s face it. You’re in pretty dire straights if you are online trying to find ways to make him miss you. Or trying to make your ex boyfriend miss you without looking like the needy clingy girl.
Again, that’s okay. We’ve ALL been there.
But the sad truth is that trying to reason or convince him into doing so is going to work against you. So what you need to do is step away from all matters that seem logical and rational to you, and follow these Relationship Ninja techniques that will make him miss you.
If you want to get your boyfriend back, what you have to do is tap into that part of the mind that loves you, this will help make him miss you… and when he misses you, he will come back.
Here are two very powerful Relationship Ninja techniques that will get his motors running again.
1. Send him a thank you note… for breaking up with you.
What, Michelle??? Yes. If things weren’t clear and you never found that infamous “closure” that all breakup-ees seek, this will be a cinch. If you both are confused about “what happened” or “who broke up with who”, make it official, and break up with him.
Or, if things are a little more crystal clear than you would like, do the opposite of what you want to do, and send him a thank you note for breaking up with you. Thank him for what he taught you to learn and grow and be a better and bigger person, and wish him all the best. Yes, it sounds final, but it will make him miss you.
Why? For starters, if you do it with the right intent, you are now officially the bigger person, and have some serious points on your side. This is a good position to be in, because the other side of this is that he will take it as rejection, and rejection is a very powerful tool when it comes to breakups. Ask any man OR womam. It makes the other party go running back in the opposite direction they started in, hopefully, right back into your arms.
You know this because of how you reacted when he dumped you. You didn’t want to be rejected. You wanted validation that you were still lovable. Do the same thing to him, but be the bigger person about it, as nice as possible, and….if nothing else, it will get him thinking. What he will be thinking about is how to reverse this rejection in his favour so that he doesn’t feel so rejected any more. Chances are, you’ll be the first call. “Hey, I just got your note, that was nice, so…what was that about? And….how are you?” Send that note. Wait for the call.
2. Have some fund and start dating again.
Yes, of course this makes it seem counterproductive to YOU, you don’t want another boyfriend, you want to get your boyfriend back. RELAX. This is a Ninja technique.
Where you once started with rejection in step one, now you are going to use the powerful tool of jealousy. You’re starting to get it now?
What you want to accomplish with this step is very simple. You want to make the point that you are moving on with your life. You are sending the message that you don’t need him, that you don’t even need to win him back, because you are fabulous, and now it’s time for the rest of the world to see that.
Do you see the true power of Relationship Ninja? It’s about you.
Instead of trying to figure out how to make him love me, try and figure out how to love you. You don’t know how this is going to work out, but you do know one thing, you need to move on with something at some point. A true Ninja has not only stealth in their favour, but true intentions.
Follow these Ninja techniques with the truest of intentions, and you’ve got a very good shot at making him rethink a few things.
